Today's entry has been preempted by preparations for 2nd son's Arrow of Light Bridging Ceremony and Banquet being held tomorrow as he moves from Webelos to Boy Scouts.
So I guess the lesson here is in forgiveness. Particularly self-forgiveness as I lament that I haven't had more time to work on this blog. But there was much to be done (and it is - Yay!), so I will redouble my efforts another day and not let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
Upon further reflection, I'm going to apply these same 2 lessons to my thoughts on Boy Scouts. For some time now, I have struggled with the BSA stance on homosexuality and membership that finds the two ideas "incompatible" (as a certain church I know might also describe that pairing). Thankfully, the organization has recently amended its rules to not discriminate against boys with same-sex attractions - but it will start back in with the judgment when they turn 18. It's a step, true, and one that I'll golf clap for, perhaps, but one that I hope will be the first of many.
These past 2 years as I have observed our boys in Scouting, however, have helped me realize that, while not everything is perfect, there are a good number of positives that at least balance out, if not actually outweigh, that glaring negative. I have watched them grow and learn in the ways that Scouting expects them to, while still having fun. More importantly, I've seen them develop friendships and a sense of community that includes boys they'd likely not otherwise meet. For those things, I am grateful.
So I will accept what good that there is, and not let it be lost in the search for the perfect that I will continue to strive for. I will also forgive BSA for its shortcomings, and I will forgive myself for being perhaps a little too zealous in having to do so.
Peace ...
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